In my opinion, if the beginning sucks, well, what can you expect later on?
We say the first impression is crucial. It is. Of course, there are exceptions. But are lack of manners and initiative acceptable excuses? I don’t think so. Things are so simple, yet we make them complicated.
It doesn’t matter how you guys met – online, through mutual friends, at the gym, etc. Once you exchange numbers, you should engage in compelling conversation. This is the mental foreplay before the first date. And I expect a guy to start moving things. It’s a little bit of talking, exchanging some ideas, a little bit of flirting.
It is lovely to have some conversation and keep it going before you go on your first in-person date.
Talking is great, but not forever. If step number one was successfully completed, LOL, it’s time to get out of the online zone and suggest a date. Face to face communication paired with body language would be so refreshing and personal instead of using those emojis over and over again 😀
It’s ok if you ask me out, but if you start with questions like oh, where should we go or what would you like to do” well, you are either lazy or not too creative. I can come up with some ideas, not the end of the world. But if you already have some places in your mind and share them with me asking for my opinion, I already love it. You can also make a choice. I don’t mind as long as it is a nice place. So guys, use your creativity imagination, and put in some work.
It would be nice to pick me up. I know women are independent nowadays and can drive or pay for an Uber to meet. But how nice would it be if you were capable of such a small yet meaningful gesture?And of course, take me back home as well 😀
#5 Don’t Insist On Asking Me To Go To Your Apartment
Even after a first date, most guys will try their luck. And no blame here. Men are men. They will invite you just for one drink to their place 😀 If you asked once and I said no, don’t ask twice. Most likely, the answer will be a no. And we get it you are men but chill, have some patience, don’t push it. If you asked once and I said no, don’t ask twice. Most likely, the answer will be a no. And we get it you are men but chill, have some patience, don’t push it.
- I love it, and it shows that it is possible.
- I was astonished that he was doing the right thing, like wow. Can you imagine how fucked up our generation is and how fucked up the times we live in? If a guy is doing the right things blows my mind.
A first date is not about money and the fancy, most luxurious restaurant.
It’s about effort, interest, and creativity.
What are the five things a guy should do before and after a first date?